As our destination wedding in Italy will be an intimate gathering, we couldn't imagine embarking on this journey without also celebrating with those who mean the most to us.
As our destination wedding in Italy will be an intimate gathering, we couldn't imagine embarking on this journey without also celebrating with those who mean the most to us.
Chapter Two: The Date That Secured It All
It was a summer night, warm with the promise of something new. He had bought tickets to the dragon show at Casa Loma, and in my heart, I envisioned a magical experience—a world where the air would be thick with mystery, where the dragons would rise from their ancient stone lairs and breathe fire into our lives. I thought it would be a night of adventure, of awe, of the kind of romance that you read about in stories. But as we arrived, the truth revealed itself with the subtle cruelty of reality: the grand castle had been transformed into a children's playground. Laughter and shrieks echoed in the air, and everywhere I looked, there were parents, strollers, and toddlers with sticky fingers. It was as if the magic had been drained from the place, replaced by something louder, messier, and more chaotic.
We were the only two well-dressed adults amidst a sea of little ones, and in that moment, I realized that the world does not always give us what we expect. But then again, it is often in the unexpected where the truest magic can be found.
Without a word, we left the castle behind. The rain began to fall, soft at first, then steady, as if nature itself understood the mood. We walked in silence, our footsteps tapping against the wet pavement, each of us lost in our thoughts. The rain felt like a cleansing, a reminder that sometimes, the best moments in life are born from the decisions we make when we let go of our plans.
We found ourselves at a dive bar, the kind of place that felt untouched by time. Inside, the DJ was spinning old-school vinyl records, and the warm, crackling sound filled the air like a forgotten melody. In the corner, a woman—quirky, introverted, perhaps even a little autistic—sat drawing on T-shirts, offering her art to anyone willing to see it. She wasn’t selling just fabric; she was offering a glimpse into her soul, as if she could communicate with the world in the only way she knew how.
The waitress broke through the haze of nostalgia. “Two beers on tap,” she said, loud and direct, as if to remind us of our place in this simple, unpretentious space. I barely heard her, caught in a flood of memories—those long nights when I would sell jewelry in bars and clubs, the thrill of talking to strangers, the dance of commerce mixed with connection. I remembered the way my heart would race as I exchanged a piece of my work for a fleeting moment of validation. There was something satisfying in that exchange, something that made me feel seen.
But tonight, I was no longer selling anything. Tonight, I was simply being, and that felt more precious than any transaction.
He spoke to me then, his voice soft but sure, as he shared with me his fascination with bunnies. "Bunnies," he said, his eyes alight with a tenderness that surprised me. "They’re my go-to comfort zone. They’re like little bursts of happiness, like dopamine hits in fur. I can’t explain it. I just feel at peace with them."
I smiled. It was strange, yet somehow endearing, how something so simple could give him such joy. The world often teaches us that we must chase after grand ambitions, that our happiness lies in the extraordinary. But here was a man, content with the simplicity of a rabbit’s gaze, the softness of its fur. I thought about the bunnies, about how they had become his anchor, his way of grounding himself when the world spun too fast.
And then the conversation turned to dentistry, to the work we both did, to the way our lives had woven together. It was funny how, sometimes, the things that brought us closest were not the things we expected, but the shared understanding of what it meant to care for others. Our families had shaped us, both of us guided by the same silent wisdom that tells us to give, to heal, to serve. There was a beauty in that, a quiet fulfillment that came from making the lives of others better.
It seemed only fitting then, in that moment, that we decided to create a symbol—a mark to represent our shared journey. We would marry the bunny with the dragon, the gentle creature with the fierce one, and a tooth, the symbol of our work and our care. A bunny, a dragon, and a tooth. Simple. But perfect.
The logo became more than just an image. It became a promise—a promise to navigate the complexities of life with the balance of the soft and the strong, the nurturing and the bold. And somehow, in the wet, dim-lit bar, surrounded by the hum of old records and the smell of rain, I knew this was it. This was the moment that would define everything. Not the castle, not the dragons, not the grand fantasies we’d dreamed of, but the quiet surrender to what life had given us.
The magic, I realized, was never in the dragons. It was always in the simplicity of the unexpected—the way life unfolds when we stop searching and start accepting. In the rain, in the bunnies, in the little dive bar—this was where the true magic began.